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About
Personal Coaching
According to
Dave Buck, head of one of the largest professional personal coaching
organizations in the world, coaching is fundamentally a highly
sophisticated form of teaching based on "precision personalization."
While you can learn a lot through books or seminars about how to get
organized or reach your goals or whatever it is that you want most to
do, using that knowledge and making those skills your own happens much
more quickly and easily when you work with a coach.
When you see
an athlete execute a gravity-defying move or hear an operatic singer
render a breath-taking aria, you're experiencing the value of coaching.
However, as the field of life coaching is a fairly new profession, the
thought of having a coach for your personal and professional lives may
never have occurred to you. If it a single competition or performance
is worth hiring a coach to help you achieve your goals, how much more
important your life and dreams?
A personal
life coach, with his or her specialized knowledge, can in effect create
a program tailored just for your specific needs and preferences. You
can use a coach for spot improvement, or as a personal trainer for
greater growth and improvement over time. Once you and your coach have
identified what your needs and goals are, your coach then works with
you on a consistent, regular basis so that you can more fully and
quickly integrate new information and skills. Working with a coach
keeps you focused on what's important for you, and that added focus
almost always results in reaching more of your goals and finding
greater joy in life.
About
ADHD Coaching
Everyone knows
what it's like to sometimes be late, or forget an important event, or
frantically work to finish something that's been put off, or be
disorganized, or overwhelmed, or to simply screw up. For some people
though, it's a regular part of their lives, creating frustration and
adversely affecting relationships, careers, and self-esteem.
When this is
the case, a person might find themselves with a diagnosis of
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (AD/HD, also called ADD and
ADHD), learning disabilities, sensory defensiveness, right-brain
dominance, Asperger’s Syndrome, high-functioning autism, or
other challenge (challenges which are in fact so commonplace that they
are well within the range of normal). These are people who's brains
don't naturally assimilate and organize time, tasks, information, or
possessions with ease.
The
assumptions and
strategies that work for "neuro-typicals" just don't work well for
people who's brains are wired differently. And "trying harder" doesn't
make it better. In fact, it often makes it worse. This specialized
coaching helps to demystify what it means to have ADHD, learning
disabilities, sensory defensiveness, or other challenge, and helps
clients understand that the source of their problems is not personal
shortcomings. An ADHD coach helps a client to identify how his or her
wonderfully unique brain functions best, and then works with that
information to develop personalized strategies to help the client
effectively deal with the things that do not come easily.
If you would
like to learn more about ADHD or about personal coaching for people
with ADHD, the articles on the website of the Attention Deficit
Disorder Association (ADDA) are a great place to start: http://www.add.org/articles.
About Phone Coaching
Although
it is a new paradigm for many people, I coach over the phone,
not in person. This benefits my clients in several ways. First, it’s
efficient. A thirty minute session takes just thirty minutes. No allotting of additional
time for getting to and from your appointments. Second, it’s convenient. Coaching is just a phone call away, so planning
around your coaching appointments is easier. Third, it’s support given in the
context of your day-to-day life, which is where you need it. Fourth, it’s
discrete. Finally, it’s effective. You and I “plan the
work and then work the plan,” making whatever adjustments might be needed along
the way. Phone discussions are often more effective than meetings to keep you
accountable and in action while developing new habits and achieving your goals.
How to Get Started
Now that you
know a bit
more about personal coaching, about ADHD, and about how coaching can be
an important part of learning to live well with this kind of brain, you
may want to take the self tests Do You Need A Coach?
available on this website.
Then, feel
free to contact me with your questions. When you contact me, we can
arrange for an introductory call. The call is fun, informative, and
free, and you'll get answers to all your questions.
I look forward
to hearing from you!
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